Dog Language: Tips to Understand Your Dog Better

Understanding your dog isn't always easy. If you can't read his body language, it can lead to problems and misunderstandings between you. This article will help you learn to understand your dog, which will have a positive effect on your relationship.

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How nice it would be if you could talk to your dog. Your dog would tell you how he feels. What he experienced today or why he is afraid right now. But unfortunately, you don't understand his "woof".

Fortunately, there is another way to read your dog's mind: body language. When you understand the signals of body language, it's almost as if your pet can talk to you.

Your dog's posture, the position of his ears and tail, and his facial expressions will tell you how he is feeling and how best to respond to him.

Meaning of Dog Language

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The importance of dog language in the human-dog relationship is invaluable. It is the basis for a deep, harmonious and trusting relationship.

Your dog uses his body to express joy, fear, excitement, insecurity and much more. Every movement, every twitch of the ears, every flick of the tail has a meaning.

But why is it so important to understand this language? Simply because it is the bridge between your world and your dog's world. Understanding this language opens the door to a deeper understanding of your dog's thoughts and feelings.

Understanding your dog's body language is more than just knowing if he's happy or sad. It's about picking up on the nuances-the subtle differences that tell you if he's feeling safe, excited, or maybe even scared.

It's about reaching a deeper level of empathy and understanding that will take your relationship to a whole new level.

Dogs can't just talk to each other like we can. Barking, growling and whimpering can tell the other person a lot. But this is not enough for good communication. That's why body language is the most important means of communication for dogs.

While other animals understand these small signals, we humans don't usually pay attention to them. And when our pets are trying to tell us something, we don't recognize it. But when you understand your dog's body language, misunderstandings are less likely. You'll know exactly when he's not feeling well.

After a while, dog owners learn their furry friends' habits and know when they are upset or just want to play. This is more difficult with unfamiliar dogs. Dangerous situations can be identified more quickly by paying attention to body language cues.

We often already know what certain body signals mean. When a dog wags its tail, it is excited. When it puts its ears back, it is alert. The real problem is that we don't pay attention and therefore don't recognize these signals.

The more we observe our four-legged friends, the more likely we are to pick up on the subtleties of their body language. Just like humans, each dog communicates differently. So pay attention to the individual differences. Watch other dogs to understand their body language.

Understanding Dog Language is Important

Understanding dog language is an essential aspect of the human-dog relationship.

  1. Promote a deeper emotional connection: Understanding the dog's nonverbal signals allows for a deeper bond. This creates a sense of closeness and mutual understanding that takes the relationship to a deeper emotional level.
  2. Improve communication and training: By recognizing and interpreting the dog's body language, training methods can be made more effective and sensitive. This leads to a successful learning process based on trust and positive reinforcement.
  3. Increase in mutual trust: When a dog realizes that its human understands and responds to its signals, it builds trust in the relationship. The dog feels safer and is more likely to follow directions and open up.
  4. Misunderstandings and conflicts are avoided: Ignorance of dog language can lead to misunderstandings and thus to conflicts. Understanding dog language can help to avoid such situations and promote harmonious coexistence.
  5. Early detection of stress, anxiety and health issues: Many dogs first show signs of discomfort, stress or pain through changes in their body language. An attentive owner can recognize these signs early and respond accordingly.
  6. Respectful treatment of the dog: Understanding dog language shows a respectful interaction with the animal. Its needs, emotions, and boundaries are taken into account, resulting in a more respectful and balanced relationship.
  7. The dog's social skills are strengthened: Dogs whose signals are understood and respected often develop better social skills. They can respond more appropriately to other dogs and people because they feel understood and safe.

Overall, understanding dog language plays a critical role in a healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationship between dog and human. It allows for communication based on empathy, understanding, and deep trust.

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What Posture Tells Us

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First, it is important to look at the body as a whole. Notice how your protégé looks to you as a whole. Does he make himself look big? Is he tense? Or does he seem to be getting smaller?

Your dog's every movement and posture is like a chapter in a book that tells of his thoughts and feelings. From the way he stands to the way he lies down, every posture has its own meaning.

When a Dog Moves Forward

Suddenly, your furry friend looks much larger than before. He shifts his weight forward and stretches his muzzle slightly upward. Dogs do this when confronted by other dogs. They want to express their dominance and intimidate the other person with their size.

However, this behavior can also occur in other situations. Your dog is showing confidence and signaling to you that he is not afraid. However, it can also be a sign that he is ready to fight. To interpret this correctly, you must also observe the position of the ears and tail, as well as the facial expression.

When a Dog Moves Down

It crouches and bends its hind legs. It may even lie flat on the ground. The head is tilted slightly downward, making the back appear round. This posture is often associated with a tense body.

If this posture makes your pet look smaller, he is probably afraid and feeling insecure. This behavior is often seen when dogs "submit" to another dog. They want to avoid a fight because the other one seems stronger.

However, this behavior can also occur in other frightening situations, such as thunderstorms. Depending on what is causing the anxiety, you may want to reassure your pet. Show him there's nothing to be afraid of.

But be careful if the hairs on the back of his neck start to stand up. If this happens, take a few steps back and wait for your furry friend to calm down. Anxious dogs will bite if they feel threatened.

Lying on Your Back

This position can have different meanings depending on the context. It is often a sign of submissiveness or trust, especially when your dog is lying on his back, relaxed and close to you. He may also be asking for attention or petting.

In play situations, it is often a sign that your dog feels safe and is having fun. However, if your dog rolls over in a confrontational situation, it may be a sign of fear or calming down.

Relaxed Lying

If your dog is lying relaxed, perhaps with his legs stretched out or in a "sphinx" position, he is comfortable in his environment. This position indicates that he feels safe and secure.

Tense Posture

A rigid, tense posture, especially a fixed gaze, can be a sign of insecurity or defensiveness. Your dog may be alert and ready to respond if he feels threatened.

Ducking Position

A dog that crouches or makes itself small is often showing submissiveness or fear. It may be trying to blend in or show that it is not a threat.

Play Arch

This posture, with the front down and the back up, is a clear invitation to play. It is an expression of joy and a desire for interaction and fun.

Three Key Signals of Canine Language

When you communicate with your dog, you do so not only with words, but also with gestures and looks. It's the same with your four-legged friend. His tail, ears and posture are like words in a language based on feelings and intuition. Let's decode this fascinating language together.

  • The language of the tail: Your dog's tail is like a mood barometer. A happily wagging tail? That's pure joy or excitement! But did you know that the way it wags tells you even more? A fast wag can mean excitement, while a slow wag often signals insecurity. And if the tail is held stiffly and high, it is often a sign of confidence or even defiance.
  • Ears on reception: Your dog's ears are like antennae, constantly picking up and transmitting signals. When they are upright, your dog is alert and interested. If they are down, it often indicates submissiveness or fear. The position of the ears can tell you a lot about your dog's current state of mind.
  • Posture tells a story: Your dog's posture is a window to his inner self. A relaxed, open posture signals comfort and contentment. On the other hand, if he is tense, with his head down and body tensed, it can mean stress or anxiety. And if your dog is lying on his back, he is either showing submissiveness or asking for a belly rub - depending on how relaxed he appears.

Understanding the language of tail, ears, and posture opens a window into the emotional world of our dogs. This nonverbal communication is an essential part of our relationship with them. It allows us to interact on a deeper, more empathetic level and strengthens our bond.

By learning to interpret these silent signals, you will not only become a better friend and companion to your dog, but also an attentive observer who truly understands his needs and emotions. So keep your eyes open and learn to understand your dog's silent but expressive language. It's a journey worth every minute.

Dog Language: Ears Pointing Upwards

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On the one hand, the position of the ears naturally says something about attention. Dogs have excellent hearing. When they hear an interesting sound, they lift their ears and turn them in that direction.

The position of your pet's ears can also tell you something about his state of mind. However, this varies from breed to breed. Some dogs have naturally erect ears. Other breeds are known for their floppy ears.

Eavesdroppers Up: What Our Dog’s Ears Tell Us

Your dog's ears are more than just hearing organs. They are an essential part of his body language and give us a glimpse into his emotional world. Let's unlock the secrets hidden in the different positions of the 1TP1 ears.

Erected Ears

When your dog's ears are perked up, he is very alert and interested. He may have seen or heard something interesting and wants to know more. This attitude shows curiosity and engagement.

If your dog's ears are pricked up, this is obviously a sign that he is paying attention. Your dog is concentrating on a particular sound and listening intently. However, pricked ears can also be a sign of superiority. To interpret this correctly, you need to pay attention to the rest of the body language and the environment.

Is the ear position accompanied by a slightly raised muzzle? If so, your pet wants to appear taller because of the raised ears. The visual enlargement is a sign of confidence and dominan

Ears Pointing Backwards

Ears laid back can have different meanings. In relaxed situations, they can signal contentment and calmness. However, if the dog is tense, the ears laid back can also mean fear, submission or appeasement.

This ear position is often accompanied by the dog making itself small and perhaps even lying down on the floor. These signals show submission and fear. Try to find out what is unsettling your pet and how you can calm him down.

Ears Sideways

Splayed ears are often a sign of insecurity or conflict. Your dog may be in a situation that he doesn't fully understand or is uncomfortable with.

Flat-Fitting Ears

If your pet's ears are close to the head, it can be a sign of fear, submission, or sometimes even aggression. Especially in combination with other body language, such as pursed lips or growling, you should take this posture seriously.

Relaxed Ear Position

A natural, relaxed ear position, where the ears are neither cocked nor prominent, shows that your dog is comfortable and relaxed. There is nothing in particular that is attracting his attention or causing him anxiety.

Facial Expressions

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Most dog owners don't realize how much our furry friends' facial expressions reveal. Granted, their facial expressions are not as varied as those of us humans.

That's probably why many people don't even notice them. But dogs also narrow their eyes or tense their facial muscles. If we pay close attention to their facial expressions, we can learn a lot about their state of mind.

Stiff Face

Tense facial muscles, constricted pupils and a fixed gaze: 

If a dog looks at you like that, be careful. 

A fixed expression indicates anger. In this case, the dog does not take his eyes off the person and seems to be watching him intently.

Under no circumstances should you respond to these expressions by staring back. Four-legged friends will quickly feel threatened if you stare into their eyes for too long. Instead, try carefully walking away a few steps. Wait until your pet has calmed down and do not provoke them further.

Relaxed Face

Your pet will show you that he or she is comfortable. The best way to tell is by his facial expression. His pupils are normal size, his facial muscles are relaxed, and he looks friendly.

Sometimes our pets even give us a smile. Through years of living with people, dogs have learned to mimic us. You can tell when your furry friend is happy by the upturned corners of their mouth.

The Famous Puppy Eyes Look

Raised eyebrows and big eyes look so cute and innocent. We just have to pay attention to our pets. What dog lovers have known for a long time has now been confirmed by researchers:

Dogs use this look specifically when they want attention. They have learned that begging works. And let's face it, who can resist that cute look?

Dog Language: Tail

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The position of the tail tells us dog owners a lot about our furry friends' moods.

Wagging Tail

Even as children, we learn that a dog wags its tail when it is happy. But it can also mean excitement or restlessness.

Tail wagging is generally a sign of excitement. Most of the time it means happiness. But sometimes it is a sign of anxiety, restlessness, or insecurity.

Have you ever noticed that your pet also wags his tail when he barks at something unfamiliar? Maybe he's really happy about it. But he's probably just excited.

  • Joyfully wagging: A rapidly wagging tail is often a sign of pure joy. Your dog may be excited to see you or looking forward to a game. This wag is usually loose and relaxed - a clear signal that your dog is happy and content.
  • Waving slowly: Slow, deliberate wagging can express uncertainty or caution. Your dog may be trying to assess a situation or showing that he is interested but still undecided.

Pointed Tail

This tail posture corresponds to the posture in which your protégé expands. It indicates confidence and attentiveness. In a confrontation with an opponent, it is intimidating and symbolizes readiness to fight and anger.

A tail held high and stiff is a strong signal. It can mean dominance, confidence, or aggression. It is important to observe the dog's entire body language to properly assess the situation.

Tucked Tail

Is the tail down or even tucked between the hind legs? This is a sign of insecurity and fear. This tail position indicates that your furry friend is feeling pressured or frightened by something.

Depending on the situation, you may want to calm your pet down or take a few steps away. This will give him space. Avoid frantic movements.

Playful Attitude

With unfamiliar dogs, we are sometimes unsure whether the growling and jumping is a sign of playfulness or aggression. At first glance, the body language is the same for both behaviors. The dog jumps back and forth, is excited, opens its mouth and growls softly. This actually indicates a willingness to fight.

But are the hind legs raised at the same time as the front paws are on the ground? Then the all-clear is given. The dog only wants to fight playfully. In this play position, the chest is lowered.

In contrast to aggression, the dog is not tense, its tail is wagging, and its eyes are wide open. But why are these postures so similar? When puppies play with other puppies, they mimic the adults. They mimic a real fight with growls and light bites.

But fighting is just a game to them. Just as they play with their siblings and parents, they want to play with us: by fighting.

Overview of Dog Body Language

Body language can only be interpreted correctly when posture, ear and tail position, and facial expressions are taken into account. That's why we've put together this overview to show you everything at a glance.

State of Mind Features
Happy
  • Relaxed posture
  • Wagging Tail
  • Large pupils
  • Head not lowered
  • Body straight, not bent
  • Erected ears
Weary
  • Makes itself visually larger
  • Erected ears
  • Head slightly upwards
  • Erected Tail
  • Narrowed eyes
  • Stares
  • Unflinching gaze
  • Tension in facial and body muscles
  • Growling and snarling
Afraid
  • Body looks smaller
  • Crouched
  • Bent hind legs
  • Lowered head
  • Ears Pointed Backwards
  • Lower Posture
  • Corners of the mouth pulled back
  • Tense posture
  • Growling and snarling
  • Tucked tail
Playful
  • Seems excited
  • Shows its teeth
  • Might growl or bark
  • Front legs laid down
  • Rear legs up
  • Relaxed posture
  • Wide-opened eyes
  • Wagging tail

How to Tell if Your Dog Is Truly Happy

A happy dog often has a relaxed posture. His muscles are relaxed and his movements are smooth and fluid. Nothing shows tension or discomfort.

A loose, rhythmic wag of the tail is a classic sign of happiness. Sometimes the whole body is wagging - an unmistakable sign that your dog is happy. Pay attention to your dog's facial expressions. Relaxed eyes and a slightly open mouth, sometimes with a "smile", show that he is happy and comfortable.

A happy dog is often curious and interested in his surroundings. He seems to want to enjoy the world around him, whether by sniffing, exploring, or playing. A happy dog will often invite you to play by doing the typical play bow or bringing you toys. This shows that he feels safe and happy with you.

If your dog sleeps peacefully and eats with appetite, these are good signs that he feels safe and comfortable in your presence. Many happy dogs seek physical contact with their humans. Whether it's a gentle lean or a petting, these gestures express trust and contentment.

When Your Dog Is Stressed or Overwhelmed

Dogs are masters at hiding their emotions. But their body language often reveals more than they would like. Stress and overexertion can manifest in many ways. Here are some signals that can help you recognize when your dog is not feeling well.

  1. Yawn: While yawning is often associated with fatigue, it can also be a sign of stress in dogs. If your dog yawns in an unfamiliar or stressful situation, it may mean that he is stressed.
  2. Scratching: Have you noticed your dog scratching a lot when there is no physical cause such as fleas or skin irritation? This may be a sign of internal stress. In such cases, scratching is a way to relieve stress.
  3. Lip or nose licking: A dog that repeatedly licks its lips or nose with no food nearby may indicate discomfort or nervousness.
  4. Avoidance behavior: If the dog avoids eye contact, turns his head away, or tries to walk away, it may be a sign that he is uncomfortable with the situation.
  5. Panting: Excessive panting, especially when it is not hot and the dog is not physically challenged, can be another sign of stress.
  6. Stiff posture: A stiff, tense posture, possibly with a fixed gaze, may indicate that the dog is in a stressful situation.

It is important to recognize these signs and act accordingly. Try to identify and reduce stressors. Give your dog time and space to relax. Sometimes a quiet environment and the reassurance that you are there can help.

Remember that every dog is different. What upsets one dog may not upset another. Pay attention to your dog's individual cues and be sensitive to his needs. Your understanding and caring can make a big difference in helping your dog feel safe and understood.

The Importance of Your Own Body Language

Reflection of the soul: How your body language speaks to your dog. Have you ever thought about how you are constantly talking to your dog without even realizing it? Not with words, but with your body language.

Your gestures, your posture, even the way you move are constantly sending messages to your four-legged friend. Let's find out how you can use this silent language to build an even deeper relationship with your dog.

Relaxed Posture

Dogs are masters at reading our body language. A relaxed and open posture conveys trust and security. If you are relaxed and calm, your dog will sense that everything is okay and will likely be more relaxed as well.

Direct Eye Contact

While direct eye contact is often seen as a sign of sincerity in humans, it can be threatening to dogs. Try to soften your gaze or look away briefly to show your dog that you are not a threat.

Body Language in Education

Your body language can work wonders in training. Clear, consistent gestures help your dog understand what you want him to do. An upright posture with calm, firm movements conveys authority without being intimidating.

Respectful Approach

When approaching your dog, especially if he is feeling anxious or insecure, it is important to do so in a non-threatening way. Avoid approaching the dog directly from above, but offer your hand to the side so the dog can sniff you.

Mirroring Emotions

Your dog can mirror your emotions. If you are nervous or anxious, your dog may pick up on these feelings and become nervous or anxious. Conversely, your calm and composure can help your dog relax.

Remember that every gesture, look, and movement sends a message to your dog. Use this silent language wisely to communicate love, trust and respect.

5 Tips for Communicating with Body Language

Communicating with your dog is a dance, a silent conversation that goes far beyond words. The way you move, the way you stand, the way you look at your dog tells him a story.

Here are some tips on how to use body language to communicate more effectively with your dog and why context is so important in interpreting signals.

  1. Be aware of your gestures: Your hand movements, the way you tilt your head, even the way you walk send signals to your dog. Slow, soothing movements can calm your dog, while quick, jerky movements can excite or frighten him.
  2. Watch your posture: An upright but relaxed posture signals confidence and calm. Avoid threatening postures, such as standing over or leaning toward your dog, as this can be perceived as dominant or intimidating.
  3. Use eye contact wisely: Eye contact can be a powerful communication tool, but it is important to use it correctly. A fixed gaze can be perceived as threatening. A friendly, gentle look, on the other hand, can express trust and love.
  4. Understand the context: Interpreting your dog's body language depends heavily on context. A wagging tail does not always mean happiness - it can also mean excitement, fear or anxiety. Observe the situation, other body language signals, and the environment to properly interpret your dog's signals.
  5. Respond to your dog's body language: Watch how your dog responds to your body language. Does he adjust his posture or behavior to match your gestures? This can help you refine your communication and better respond to his needs.

Do’s and Don’Ts: Communicating With Your Dog

Understanding dog language is both an art and a science. There are some important do's and don'ts to help you use this language effectively and avoid misunderstandings. Here are some basic recommendations and warnings for communicating with your dog.

Do's Don'ts
  • Be Consistent: Always use the same signals and commands. Dogs learn through repetition and consistency helps them to understand more quickly.
  • Observe closely: Pay attention to your dog's body language. It gives you valuable clues about his feelings and needs.
  • Respond appropriately: If you understand your dog's signals, react appropriately. If he shows fear, comfort him. If he shows joy, rejoice with him.
  • Use positive reinforcement: Reward good behavior with treats, pats or words of praise. Positive reinforcement strengthens self-confidence and promotes learning.
  • Be patient: Understand that learning takes time. Be patient when your dog is learning something new or when you are trying to interpret his signals.
  • Not penalties: Negative reactions such as loud shouting or corporal punishment can cause fear and mistrust.
  • Do not suppress his signals: Don't ignore when your dog shows signals such as discomfort or fear. Suppressing them can lead to bigger problems.
  • Do not overtax your dog: Do not overwhelm your dog with too many instructions or contradictory signals. This can lead to confusion and stress.
  • Avoid inconsistent communication: Don't send mixed signals. Be clear and consistent in your body language and tone of voice.
  • Do not overinterpret every signal: Sometimes a tail wag is just a tail wag. Not every signal needs to be over-interpreted.

Frequently Asked Questions

Dogs can communicate to some extent with other dogs and humans through body language and sounds. This is primarily to communicate emotions.

If the corners of the mouth are pulled back, the dog is submissive. If it shows its teeth, it is threatening. If the lips are stretched forward, the dog is relaxed.

Tense facial muscles, constricted pupils, and a fixed gaze: If a dog is looking at you like this, be careful. Fixed facial expressions indicate anger. In this case, the dog will not take its eyes off the other person and seems to be watching them intently.

Raised eyebrows and big eyes look so cute and innocent. We just have to pay attention to our pets. What dog lovers have known for a long time has now been confirmed by researchers: Dogs use this look specifically when they want attention. They have learned that begging works.

Suddenly, your furry friend looks much larger than before. He shifts his weight forward and stretches his muzzle slightly upward. Dogs do this when confronted by other dogs. They want to express their dominance and intimidate the other person with their size.

A relaxed dog will have a soft body language, while a stressed dog may have tense muscles and may pant.

My Conclusion

Body language is the most important way dogs communicate. If you understand it, you are communicating correctly with your pet. There will be fewer misunderstandings. You will know more quickly how he is feeling or if he is missing something.

All you have to do is watch your dog and other dogs and pay attention to their body language. Over time, you will pick up on more subtleties and know how they will behave.

Look at the dog's whole body, not just parts like the ears or tail. The environment and outside influences are also important. Only when everything fits together will you be able to understand your dog's language. Then nothing will stand in the way of your communication 👍.

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Written by Anja Boecker

My name is Anja Boecker, and I am a certified dog trainer and behavior consultant. With these articles, I want to help you to understand your dog better and to build an inseparable bond.

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4 Comments

  1. Bernhard Christian

    How is it to be understood when the dog barks at me and at the same time wags its tail.

    1. Mine from Hundeo

      Dear Bernhard, this usually means that your dog wants something from you. Many dogs also take a step back and forward or trot lightly on the spot. In most cases this means: Need for more attention, play, go for a walk or he has to go or he is hungry.

  2. Please, what does it mean when a strange dog jumps up at me with his front paws, tries to reach my mouth (greeting) and then gently grabs my hands with his teeth. ?
    The dog also lets itself be stroked.
    I walk with crutches and I am a woman.
    Follows me and waits outside my door for a time and may want to enter.
    This bitch does that more often.

    I have the impression that this bitch wants to be adopted by me.

    1. Mine from Hundeo

      Hello, judging by your descriptions, this bitch really wants to be adopted by you or simply finds you sympathetic. Does she not have a master or mistress with her when she greets you? If not, it might be a good idea to find out if she already has an owner. If not, you can contact the animal protection in your area. Surely the animal welfare can advise you on this.

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